Showing Up

It’s a common phrase in Christian circles when something happens that conforms to what we want. “God was really working in that situation”, we say and the evidence of this, is apparently us acquiring what we prayed for. We know that we’ve talked to God about our desires and when we obtain them we think that God’s power is demonstrated. It’s a simple case of cause and effect.

The problem with that theory is that there are a lot of times that we don’t get what we want, and yet, God is still on His throne. Just because we can’t trace the cause and effect doesn’t mean that God’s not accomplishing His purposes. God’s working even when we don’t acknowledge it. As Rob Bell says “God is always present. We’re the ones that show up.”

And therein lies our challenge. We need to show up to participate in what God is already doing. We need to see where He’s working and want to be a part of it. We shouldn’t be looking for God accomplishing what we want, but we should be seeking to be a part of His purpose. Showing up sounds easy, but it requires that we don’t have our own agenda, or our own expectations of what should be. We’re open to the possibilities of what He’s doing, and we’re listening to His still small voice so we know where we should be.

As children, we don’t understand the power of showing up, because its what we’re doing already. We don’t plan and strategize, we just accept where we are and look how to make the most of the experience. Children don’t have to be convinced that God created the world or that He’s working in their lives. They have to be convinced that He’s not.

When God commanded us to “become like little children” it was not only a reminder to trust Him without inhibition but to see His work wherever we happen to be. He’s always on His throne, He’s always commanding His Creation. We just have to be willing to experience it.

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Misperceptions

Recently, a friend shared with me a story of his weekend spent volunteering with the Special Olympics. During the soccer matches members of the other team who were not challenged by any physical disabilities (both disable and non-disable players were in the game) apparently were challenged by understanding the purpose of the Special Olympics as they felt it necessary to use the avenue as an opportunity to show off their shooting techniques and run up the score. Today, I read a story of a coach who got in a fight with an 18 year-old Pee Wee referee because the referee had ejected the coach for cursing in front of his 5-6 year old players. As one of my coworkers said upon hearing these stories, “the world’s gone mad.”

What’s interesting to me about each of the stories is the perspectives that the chief actors must have had. Obviously the soccer players felt that their actions were appropriate for the setting even if they totally missed the purpose of the Special Olympics. Additionally, I’m guessing he Pee Wee coach felt his actions (both the cursing and the fighting) were entirely acceptable given the situation. If you asked any of these participants, they probably felt that their behavior was warranted and entirely justifiable. The fact that most dispassionate observers would disagree would probably not sway them. They probably figure that mere observers probably just couldn’t understand.

I think we all can get like that some times. It’s so easy to see a situation from our vantage point that it just seems to be the only view available. We believe that if others really understood it the way that we did, then they too would see things our way. The fact that they aren’t tarnished by emotional involvement only makes their analysis seem, well, analytical. We truly believe that our perspective is the right one.

Rarely though does one person have a monopoly on a given situation. Life on this Earth is filled with complex interactions each influenced by the history and experience of the individuals. Thankfully, our Judge is not tainted by these perceptions, however our relationships on Earth must be. We can’t be impartial, we can’t have a clear perception. We are all influenced by the person we choose to be.

Maybe that’s why God said “mercy triumphs over judgment!” (James 2:13) Granting mercy doesn’t require a perfect perceptive, bestowing judgment does.

Bypassing on judging the soccer players or the Pee Wee coach isn’t easy. Their actions seem so blatantly wrong. But extending mercy assures that we take one step away from becoming them.

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