Stamp of Approval

Inkpad and Stamp
©iStockphoto.com/webking

When I was younger I had a pink, heart-shaped stamp with my name printed in the middle. I used that stamp voraciously as a way to indicate ownership and as my imprimatur on letters and other things. Even before I could properly sign my name that stamp enabled me to indicate my approval; it allowed me to attest to that which aligned with my perspective (however naive that perspective was as a young child.) I treasured that stamp because it was a way for me to state a claim in little and small things alike.

Like most people, as I grew I had other ways of indicating my approval with things. We learn to articulate our positions, to make a case, and to contend for our perspective, not to mention we learn how to sign our names. What’s convicting though is how often we signal our approval without any purposeful forethought. Perhaps we keep silent when we know we shouldn’t, thereby giving indication that we condone the actions or words that have been said. Perhaps we laugh when we should reprove. Instead of a stamp with our name on it, our actions and words often serve as our imprimatur instead. Sometimes it seems that our approval is cheaply acquired as we freely give it to avoid conflict or contention.

Philippians 1:10 reminds us, however, that for the Christian, actions and words should meet certain criteria before our approval is granted them. As the verse states:

“so that you may approve what is excellent, and so be pure and blameless for the day of Christ,”

Our approval, then, should not be cavalierly bestowed, but should be granted to those things that are excellent in nature – not in terms of the world’s perspective, but from Heaven’s vantage point. We should be looking towards how eternity will valuate actions and words and align our approval with that which will be thought of as “excellent” in the age to come.

The preceding verse indicates how Paul desired that this perspective would be granted to the church in Philippi. He writes:

And it is my prayer that your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and all discernment, (Phil. 1:9)

In other words – the church at Philippi was to love in increasing measure, but they weren’t to do so blindly. Their love was to be coupled with “knowledge and all discernment” so that the things that they approved of, they things that they gave their imprimatur to, would mirror that which Christ would commend. Their standards for conduct were to be His standards; what they approved was to be the same things which would prompt Him to say “well done, good and faithful servant.”

It can be frightening to think of the things that we approve of, either by tacit consent or by silent affirmation. When we act in ways that seem to condone evil, or when we neglect to set ourselves apart from the evil that exists, we tarnish our witness and our representation of Christ. Instead, we need to be striving for purity and blamelessness so that what we approve is the same as that which Christ does. Our approval should not be squandered on lesser things, but only what is deemed excellent from Heaven’s perspective.

 

Continue Reading

Absent of Thanks

Sunday School graduates are familiar with the story of how Jesus healed 10 lepers (Luke 17:11-16). After giving them instructions that would lead to the removal of their affliction, and then finding that following Christ’s instructions accomplished just that, only one of the ten returned to thank Him. The one is commended but the comparison is stark. Although 10 were given life-altering reprieves, only one expressed gratitude for the transformation.

Every time I revisit the story I find myself pondering what happened to the other nine. Did they have intentions of returning but were distracted by the joy they found in their revived societal standing? Did they think that a thank you note would be sufficient but didn’t have Christ’s forwarding address? Did they ever look down at their newly cleansed skin and feel guilt over the fact that a simple “thank you” was never proffered? Were they embarrassed at the time delay and that’s why they never (as far as we know) sought Christ out again?

I don’t know the answers to these questions. Christ does indicate that the nine who didn’t express their thanks were just as healed as the one who did. And while we may marvel at God’s mercy in healing even those who don’t take to say thank you, Evan S. Coslett reminds us that we have the opportunity to extend similar type of grace among those whom we serve. As he states:

“There were ten lepers healed, and only one turned back to give thanks, but it is to be noticed that our Lord did not recall His gift from the other nine because of their lack of gratitude. When we begin to lessen our acts of kindness and helpfulness because we think those who receive do not properly appreciate what is done for them, it is time to question our own motives.”

In other words, if our willingness to serve is based on the expression of thanks that we expect to receive, than our service will be incomplete. Instead, we must emulate Christ’s example and serve not because of what we expect in return, but because of the need that we see. Whether people express their appreciation appropriately is not the barometer for the effectiveness of our service. Instead it’s the degree of obedience to what God has called us to do. Even if others don’t appreciate the sacrifice, we can trust that God applauds it and that He will work through it to bring about His plan and good purpose.

It can be hard to serve when the efforts go unnoticed or the sacrifice seems unappreciated. However, in reality our service to man should not be because of who they are, but because of Who God is, and because of how He desires His children to live. Whether the people who are the recipients of our kindness every thank us appropriately is not the issue. The issue is whether our lives are lived in an expression of gratitude for all He has done for us.

Continue Reading