The Sanctity of Silence

In marketing, we talk a lot about “noise.” Noise is anything that distracts the intended audience from hearing the message, and as you can probably guess, we live in a very noisy world. Not only are people bombarded by a variety of different messages, creating noise through the sheer preponderance of different communications, but there are so many other distractions that keep people from listening. The cell phone ring, the email bing, and traffic on the freeway can all be causes of noise. It is hard to get a word in edgewise.

Yet I find that even though it’s difficult, I still manage to do so. Despite the distractions and disruptions, I still spend a significant part of my day talking. Set aside the fact that as a professor talking is a critical part of my job, and I’m still using thousands upon thousands of words a day. And I’ve come to realize that I probably should be using a few less.

Here’s why. I’ve learned that the more I talk, the more likely I am to sin. I understand that may sound odd, but think about it – most of the subtle sins that creep into our lives have to do with the use of our tongue. Whether it’s the telling of “white” lies (there is no such thing in God’s eyes), the cruel comeback to make ourselves look good while belittling another, or the juicy bit of gossip we just have to pass along – our mouths get us into all sorts of trouble. Most of the time if we weren’t so quick to jump in with what we wanted to say, we could avoid that sin altogether.

It’s probably why the Bible spends such a considerable amount of time warning us about our tongue. James talks about it extensively, as does Proverbs. In fact, Proverbs makes it very clear that the less we talk, the more we are likely to avoid sin when it states, ” When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise” (Proverbs 10:19, NIV).

What I’ve further realize is that this shouldn’t come as a surprise. After all, as a follower of God my goal is to be more like Him. And how many times have you heard someone wish that God would speak more?  It’s possible that He is speaking and they’re just not listening, but it also may be because God is going to use His words wisely  and therefore, He doesn’t have to use too many of them. It may seem like He’s silent because in comparison to us, He is. But we should be striving to be more like Him, not wishing for Him to be more like us, and we would be wise to respond accordingly.

After all, a little less noise would probably be a good thing and  less sin definitely would be.

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Filled Yet Empty

We’re a numbers-oriented society. We measure sports teams by their win/loss record. Grades are assigned based on the percentage of questions that a student answered correctly. Even employees are routinely evaluated by a numbers-based system. Perhaps it’s because math is the universal language. Two plus two will always equal four regardless of whether you are in France, Japan or Antarctica. In a  day in age where we parse what the word “is” means, numbers are easy to understand.

It’s tempting to bring this same mentality to church. We measure a church’s effectiveness by how many seats are filled, much like we measure a baseball team’s success by how many tickets they’ve sold. We’ve become a nation that celebrates the mega-church, that delights in warehouses and stadiums filled with parishioners. And this is not necessarily a bad thing. I’m a firm believer that numbers aren’t what determines a church’s adherence to teaching and applying the Word of God. After all, 3,000 new believers were added in a single day after Pentecost. That would qualify as a mega-church by any standards today. However, it can become a problem when all we are looking at is the numbers; when we are more concerned about the quantity of people instead of the quality of their growth.

As Charles Shedd is quoted as stating –  “The problem is not that the churches are filled with empty pews, but that the pews are filled with empty people.” If the people in attendance have a vapid faith, if their understanding of God is diluted by their personal preferences rather than illuminated by truth of God’s Word, than the church is empty regardless of how many seats are filled.

The challenge is to make sure that this is not true of us. We need to be people who have a deep and growing understanding of Who God is, and what it means to follow Him. We need to be filled with His love, and His wisdom, committed to doing the work that He has set before us to do. We need to go to church thinking not what we can get, but how we can use what we’ve been given by Him to further His kingdom.

We need to make sure that when we fill a seat, we are coming as people who are filled by Him.

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