Confidence in God’s Choices

Confidence is a subject that we talk a lot about. We admire people with a lot of self-confidence and we want to nurture that same quality in our children. We discuss the confidence that we have in the stock market, the job market, or our political leaders. Confidence is important because without it, there is often anxiety and worry. Where we lack confidence is often the point of our failure.

Confidence is usually created because of what someone or something does. We have confidence in the stock market when it shows stable growth. We have confidence in our political leaders when they make policies that benefit our country. The action or activity precedes the expression of confidence. We hold that confidence just as long as the consequences for that actions seem beneficial. This is why politicians so carefully pander to their constituents; trust can be a fleeting thing.

Of course, there is One in whom we can always have confidence because we know that, unlike political leaders and economic policies, He is always the same. Even when things don’t seem to be working out according to His purpose, His children can be confident that they will. He is always faithful, always true to His Word.

This is what we see when we look at the lives of Shadrach, Mescach and Abednego who were true to God’s commands, because they had confidence that God would be true to Who He is.  They held this confidence regardless of whether God chose to rescue them from the fiery furnace. They knew He could, but even if He didn’t, they knew His purposes were being accomplished (Daniel 3:16-18).This consistent confidence in God became a testament not only to their faith, but to their God as well (Daniel 3:28).

It’s a great thing to have confidence in what God can do, but like the three amigos (as I like to call them), we need to also demonstrate our confidence in what God chooses. If we only focus on what He is able to do, we may be sorely disappointed when His plans fail to conform with ours. Instead, like  Shadrach, Mescach and Abednego we need to say that even if God doesn’t give us what we desire, we have confidence that His choice is better. Our confidence is not in the circumstance, but in Him.

 

How do you maintain your confidence in God even when circumstances are trying?

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Ahead of the Crowd

I’m the type of person who doesn’t mind hanging out by myself. In fact, every once in a while I relish an evening with me, a good book, and a comfy couch. However,  although there are people who like being alone, I’ve yet to meet anyone who likes being lonely. Being alone is a choice, being lonely is abandonment.

Throughout Scripture there are people who knew what is was to be abandoned by others. Their allies, their friends and sometimes even their families left them high and dry. Joseph is one such example of this. Going to visit his brothers in the field, they capture him, put him in a well, and then sell him into slavery. As confident as Joseph appears to be, this had to be devastating. There are few worse affronts than to be abandoned by your flesh and blood, to be sold by those who should protect you.

Scripture gives us a different perspective on this event. Psalm 105:17 says that God sent Joseph on ahead. It’s an unconventional way to look at it, because it would be tempting to think that God wasn’t in these events at all. That this was the result of angry and jealous brothers. But not only did God use the events, He was purposeful with the timing, sending Joseph before the famine would strike his family.

It had to be lonely for Joseph. He was sent to a foreign country, wrongly accused of a crime, and sent to prison where promises of advocacy were broken. It might have seemed like he was abandoned but God hadn’t left. Joseph was simply His advance party. God sent him out in front of the rest so that Joseph might help save a nation, and those Joseph loved.

So when we are feeling abandoned, like there is no one walking with us, let us consider whether God is sending us out ahead of the crowd to be part of what He is preparing for His children. If He is, we can have confidence that the difficult times will be used for something good. And let us remember that even when we are by ourselves, His children are never alone.

If we know that God’s children are never alone, how will this change our perspective on feeling abandoned? Who do you know that God “sent on ahead” and used for His purposes?

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