Start & Finish

It’s much easier to start something well than to finish it in the same manner.Whether it’s the exercise program that we’re bound and determined to complete, or the home improvement project that lingers on our to-do list, we tend to begin with abundant motivation only to find that it languishes as time passes on. Beginnings are exciting – a new school year, a new hobby or a new goal all fuel our intentions; ending with the fire burning is a much harder proposition.

In much the same way, each day begins with new promises and potential. We commit that today will be the day that we live wholeheartedly for Christ. And we start off well. But as much as the day holds potential, it holds challenges and problems too, and often these quelch the enacting of our good intentions.

However, in his song “10,000 Reasons” [affiliate link] Matt Redman reminds us that this isn’t how he should be. He sings:

The sun comes up, it’s a new day dawning
It’s time to sing Your song again
Whatever may pass, and whatever lies before me
Let me be singing when the evening comes

How we begin the day matters, but how we end the day matters too. As with most things, how we end will come to define what proceeded it.

And since our lives are the summation of our days, we not only want to end each day well, but we want to end the race that God has set before us in the same way. As our lives in Him began with praise, so we want the end of our lives here to finish with it. After all, for His children, the end here is the start of life with Him there.

And often, how our lives end will come to define what proceeded it. And we want our lives to be defined by praising Him.

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Tempting to Compare

Having a sister that’s only 19 months older than me meant that we were subject to a lot of comparisons growing up. Like many other siblings it wasn’t unusual for someone to say to us, “Well your sister did this….” assuming that would be the same for the other one. It was a natural disposition – we were two people, close in age from the same family. It would make sense that people would look for common ground, seeking to understand one of us from what they knew about the other.

Sometimes my sister and I were tempted to make the comparisons ourselves. We would say to my dad or my mom “But she got this” in an attempt to justify why we should get our desired outcome. As we grew older, my mom was fond of telling us that “Things aren’t the same, but they are fair” My sister and I may not have gotten the same gifts, the same privileges or the same circumstances, but my parents were committed to treating us justly in the midst of differing situations.

The tendency to compare doesn’t just happen between siblings though. Much like my sister and I were tempted to compare how my parents are treating us, we are tempted to compare how God is treating His children. We wonder why one person gets good things, when we are in the midst of a hard time. We shake our head as another’s sin seems to go unpunished, while we experience the hard hand of discipline. Some of God’s people get fame while others seem to labor in obscurity. We compare the path that God has placed us on, with the road that He’s asked someone else to walk.

It’s not a new temptation. In John 21:21-22 Peter wants Christ to tell Him what’s happening with another disciple. He wants the inside scoop as to what the other’s life will hold, presumably so he can compare it to his own. But Jesus makes it clear that what Peter needs to worry about is what He’s asked of him. As Christ stated earlier (Matthew 16:18) and reinforced here – Peter was to be used as God’s instrument to build the church. He didn’t need to be focused on what God had planned for John – but to get busy on what God had planned for him. And so should we!

Instead of using our time to compare our lives to another we should be using our time to pursue what God has planned for us. Let Him worry about what the other person’s life will hold – He’s much better at orchestrating the details anyway!

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