Experience Counts


When Kobe Bryant recently won his fourth NBA championships, commentators and journalists alike claimed it as vindication that he could win a title without his one-time teammate and now media-nemesis Shaquille O’Neil. According to these same pundits, Kobe needed this title to claim his play in basketball history. It was his opportunity to prove that he could be a champion even without Shaq’s power and dominance.

Prior to the title win, however, many of these same pundits were comparing the Magic and the Lakers’ experience in championship play. The Magic had been to the Finals one other time – and had been swept in the series. The Lakers are chasing the record help by the Celtics for most all-time champion reigns. When comparing the two team’s history, the Lakers seemed to have the clear advantage.

However, the Lakers’ past experience and the severance of his relationship with Shaq aren’t what won them this championship. Experience counts, but what you do with that experience counts too. If Kobe had believed the hype, that without Shaq he would always fall short, he wouldn’t be celebrating on the streets of Los Angeles this week. Conversely, if the Lakers had taken their heart-breaking lost to the Celtics last year as a sign of their weakness instead of motivation for future wins, they too would be at home mourning another failed playoff attempt. Kobe’s experience included both success and failure, but it isn’t what determined the final outcome. His response to it, his hard work, plus, yes his phenomenal gifts, are what ultimately enabled him to fulfill his quest.

The point is this, oftentimes in life we place a large weight on the experience of someone else. We want people to “walk in our shoes” before the give us advice. We want teachers who have already trodden where we need to walk. We want experience, because we think experience validates wisdom. But experience doesn’t. Experience gives us a lens through which we view our world, but its the lessons that we take that produces wisdom. It’s rightly understanding our experience in relation to the God of the Universe that allows us to tread our journey with ultimate security. Experience counts, but only so much as we make it. There are plenty with experience who have failed to overcome, failed to move on, and failed to achieve victory. When we desire experience, we are asking for that which is only an indication of proficiency. Really what we should be looking for is experience quality – experience that has lead to a quality outcome, that has produced that which honors God and indicates preparedness for future success.

Kobe Bryant had years of experience playing with Shaq, but that didn’t determine his ability to win a championship with a different sort of team. The Celtics had years of experience winning the championship, but that didn’t determine their appearance in the Finals. We have to put experience it is proper place if we are going to understand its outcome. In doing so, we allow the unexpected to happen. And we are open to that, when we haven’t predetermined the conditions of success, God does amazing things.

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A Heroic Compromise


The recent firestorm over the just-released torture memos has elicited opinions from anyone and everyone. Is it torture? Is it not torture? Is torture every justified, and if so when? The questions that have germinated from the memos are not new ones. They are questions that look at the heart of what we value as a culture and as values change so does our interpretation of the actions of others.

Along with this debate of what actions are justified in war, there’s a lesser struggle that is undergirding the discussion. In times past, people would point to the military as instruments on justice, truth, and courage. As questions have arisen over tactics used, one might wonder who our new heroes should be. Again, the culture is quick with an answer. An answer, I’m afraid, that is often found wanting.

Dictionary.com defines heroes as someone with noble character or that does brave deeds. In a recent People article, Liam Neeson’s director on the film Chloe stated, “Liam is heroic…He came back and finished.” The quotation is referring to the actor’s quick return to the set after the tragic death of his wife Natasha Richardson. Now, please hear me carefully, I think Mr. Neeson conducted himself exceptionally well under the circumstances. He maintained a sense of dignity in the midst of an unthinkable family tragedy. “Heroic”, though? For returning to work? I’m not sure that qualifies. Sure, what he did may be noteworthy, but to put in on par with those who sacrifice their lives or their freedom, those that are true heroes, seems far-fetched to me. Just as it seems equally ridiculous when we hail someone because they can run fast, or because they can catch a ball. Sure, there talents are extraordinary, but exercising the gifts that God gave them does not mean that we should look to them for anything else. They are, in other words, very rarely, good role models for how we should contact our lives. They very infrequently met the heights of the word’s definition.

When there cease to be high standards for those that we acclaim, we are often willing to accept less and compromise more. Let that not be the case. Let us retain the word “hero” for those that rightly deserve it, and maybe the debate on how we define other words, will get a little easier too.

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