Frustrated

“Why in the world would someone do that?”

It’s a question I find myself asking all too often. Whether it’s something someone said, how they acted or the choices that they make,  I have long realized that I won’t ever completely understand people.

The problem comes when those words, actions or choices begin to affect me.  I try to be understanding and remember that people are probably asking the very same thing about me, but I still sometimes end up frustrated.

Recently, however, I’ve been struck with the realization that Jesus often contended with frustrating people too. Despite the flannelgraph stories that I have in my head where all is tranquil, in reality, Jesus had to deal with people who:

  • gossiped about Him
  • questioned Him
  • doubted Him
  • mocked Him

and eventually killed Him.

Yet instead of frustratingly lashing out at how ridiculous they were being, He

  • corrected them
  • taught them
  • helped them
  • loved them

and ultimately sacrificed Himself for them.

People’s response didn’t prohibit Christ from doing what God had called Him to do. Regardless of their actions, He focused on reflecting God’s glory. And so it should be for us.

After all, it is Christ that is at work in us.  And nothing can frustrate His purposes.

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Spurred

We’ve all seen it.

It’s a classic scene in almost any Western movie.

→The vilian looks like they will succeed.

→The hero realizes that it’s up to him to save the day.

→He grabs his trusty horse, digs in his heels and gallups towards danger. Ultimately, it’s what brings about victory.

The reason, of course, that the hero digs in his heels is because on the side of the boots he’s wearing metal spurs. The spurs are designed to “encourage” the horse to go faster. They’re sharp and they’re pointed and they offer a lot of motivation.  They prompt the horse towards the correct course of action. The horse knows that if he wants to eliminate the pain, he must do what his master desires.

It’s that imagery that gave me a new appreciation for the command that we are to “spur” each other on to love and good deeds when one of our pastors pointed out the true meaning of the word.

Often I think of that word as being synynomous with encouragement. Which I guess it can be. But that doesn’t mean that the encouragement will always be pleasant.

It doesn’t meaning that our spurring each other on is limited to platitudes and Facebook “like’s.”

Sometimes we must spur each other on in ways that cause temporary pain.

→We must help a brother or sister in Christ realize how they’ve sin.

→We must prompt them to return to doing what their Master desires.

→We must show them how to run faster after Jesus.

And it may not be pleasant.

But we’re still called to do it.

So that they too, may experience victory.

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