Turning Blessings Back

In his book Mere Christianity [affiliate link], C.S. Lewis tells the story of a young boy who is given money by his father. The boy takes the money and buys the father a gift. Upon receiving the gift, you can not say that the father is any richer – after all it was his money that made the purchase possible. However, he is pleased that what was given to his son was used to honor him. If the story sounds familiar, it was also the inspiration for the band name Sixpence None the Richer.  It’s a story that reflects how Christians are to honor our Heavenly Father with what He has given us.

Taking the illustration a step further, it would have been easy for the boy to go out and do whatever he wanted with the money his dad had given him. Most would look at the situation and consider the money “his.” He could have saved it, spent it on himself, doled it out a bit at a time, or a myriad of other alternatives.   What he choose to do was to expend it  – not for his own sake, but for the sake of the one who had given it to him. He didn’t possessively cling to it; he recognized it as a means by which to bring joy to his father’s heart.

We all have been given similar blessings. These aren’t just specific talents or abilities (what are often called “gifts” in a spiritual sense), but possessions and positions, opportunities and options, rights and relationships that have been granted to us based on hundreds of different reasons (the job we have, the country we live in, our family dynamics, etc.) Our propensity is to think of these things as “ours.” Sure – there may be times where we are inclined to use them for the sake of the Kingdom, but we cling to them as tokens that have been given to us. We may sacrificially give up one, but it is less likely that we wholeheartedly give them all back to the One who generously endowed us with them. Rarely do we acknowledge that our blessings are only means of bringing our Father praise.

If we did – if we were willing to turn all the blessings He had given us back to Him in order to bring Him honor and glory, then we would trust Him more when He chose to take them away. They wouldn’t be “ours” anymore anyway – they would be given back to Him – to do what He wanted with in His infinite wisdom and provision. The blessings wouldn’t be things we would cling to; instead we would cling to the One who holds them (and us) in His hands.

And like Job we would acknowledge that:

““Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked shall I return. The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.” (Job 1:21)

 

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The Unknown Tomorrow

Like many people, I often struggle with the sin of worry. I used to tell people that I was a “champion worrier” until I realized that this was something to be ashamed of rather than proclaim. I know men worry, but it seems like it is an affliction that disproportionately targets women. I’m prone to believe that it is an evil contortion of our God-given gifts of nurture and concern. Somehow Satan convinces us that caring equates with anxiety – even the thesaurus draws parallels between the two. In reality, if we truly cared, we would be more than willing to trust our loved ones and our future to the concern of our King – who does a much better job of providing than we ever could.

As I have fought the battle against worry, one of the things that I remind myself is that I don’t know what tomorrow will bring. James 4:12-14 makes this point very clear. We should be careful in arrogantly crafting expectations for the future, because tomorrow may turn out much different than we expect. Instead of trusting in our own plans, we should seek to follow the plans of the One who holds the future, and rely on Him to bring us what we need.

This is all Scripturally sound, but I’m afraid that I often think about this in the negative. In other words, in my mind, tomorrow may be filled with doom and gloom so having expectations of future success may be misguided. This make sense because the context of the passage implies such a situation. However, recently I’ve been reminded that not only are the interruptions of our plans anticipated by us, but so are the unexpected blessings. We don’t know what tomorrow will hold in terms of the challenges we will face, but we also don’t know how God may provide in unforeseen ways. The good and the bad of tomorrow is unknown, which is why I must not trust in circumstances, but in the One controls them. He is good – and regardless of what the future holds – He is faithful through it.

In an age where we have a wealth of information at our fingertips, it can be hard to not know even know the details of the next day. But there is One who does – and His plans for our future will always be better than the ones that we can devise (Rom. 8:28).  And we may just be surprised by the unexpected ways He provides.

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