One to The Other

The phenomenon of cause and effect is well documented. One thing happens and it causes a subsequent reaction. It’s the stuff of science experiments, kids games, and world affairs. One individual decision propagates other developments. Sometimes these developments are anticipated, but other times they come out of nowhere – catching us unaware and with little recourse.

The Bible makes it clear that cause and effect are not just limited to the physical world. For instance, the status of our heart determines the words that we speak (Mt. 12:34) Because they hated our Master, the world will hate us too (John 15:18-19). And anxious hearts lead to sinful behavior (Psalm 139:23-24).

The last one may seem like a stretch. However, the psalmist seems to imply that the two are related. First, the author asks God to test his anxious thoughts. Next, he asks that any sinful way be obliterated. It an “bottom line” culture like ours it may seem meaningless that the author starts with his internal dialogue. But what the psalmist knows, and what we know experientially, is that if our thoughts aren’t glorifying to God,  it’s less likely that our actions will be. Cause and effect – our internal sin often leads to external ones. 

While we quickly recognize that thoughts influence our behavior when it comes to how we treat our spiritual family, or even in how we respond to unpleasant circumstances, we are less willing to acknowledge that merely worrying about something could lead us to sinful behavior. Yet, we see this in practice. Stressing over a situation leads to anxiety. Anxiety leads to an uneasiness and mistrust. Mistrust leads to futile anger and frustration. And frustration explodes into a quest for control and a lack of contendendess.

It seems so dramatic – and yet we all can attest that worry is quick to manifest itself into sinful actions. In fact, as one pastor stated, instead of saying “we are worrying about such and such” we really should be saying, “I’m in sin over such and such.” Worry it itself is a sin – and it leads to “grievous” behavior. If our hearts aren’t firmly resting in the sovereignty of our great God and King, our actions will soon reflect this. Actions that don’t acknowledge the sovereignty of God are actions that seek to place something else in His place; they are sin.

It can be hard to always anticipate the outcomes of certain events. Yet when we allow worry to fester and take root, we can almost always anticipate that this will be an area in which we will be tempted to further sin. If we want to prevent the latter, we should work on eliminating the former, and instead center our thoughts and place our cares, on our great God and Creator.

 

How can you practically let your thoughts rest on God rather than letting them be consume with worry? 

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No Worries

“It’s o.k – no worries.”

That’s a phrase I find myself saying often. It’s my way of minimizing a potentially contentious situation.

The problem is that when I say it, oftentimes it is an inaccurate descriptor of what I’ve been doing. I’m focusing on how the person didn’t respond according to my timetable, or how they behaved in a way that I didn’t anticipate, or even how they failed to do what they said they would. I’m stressing over my inability to control their behavior, and the cataclysmic outcomes that I envision as a result of that. In short, worrying has been my exact response. I just don’t want them to know this. Because when it does get resolved, worrying seems like such a futile activity. And of course, that’s because it is.

The Bible makes this clear. In His longest recorded sermon, Jesus takes up this topic precisely. He reminds us that worrying doesn’t accomplish anything and that worrying is a sign that we lack trust in God’s sovereignty. Similarly, Paul writes in Philippians 4:6:

[D]o not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. [emphasis mine].

We might try to rationalize what’s “acceptable” to worry about – money, our kids’ future, issues in the church – but God doesn’t leave any room for negotiation. He says we aren’t to worry about anything – and when He states that – He means anything.

This of course is hard. Not because God isn’t trustworthy – because He certainly is. And not because God can’t handle the situation – because He certainly can. But because we fool ourselves into believing that control is in our hands. And the truth is, if it was up to us – we should worry. But it’s not – so we shouldn’t.

I hope that in the future when I say “no worries” that I’ll be able to fully mean it. I hope that I won’t be saying it as a way to make myself or the other person feel better, but I’ll be saying it as an acknowledgment that I trusted in God and not man, and therefore, there really wasn’t any reason to worry.

 

How do you fight the temptation to worry?

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