Eat, Tweet, and Be Merry

One of the things that I think everyone has learned at one time or another is that the immediacy of the digital age has both benefits and consequences. For example, a benefit of social media is that you can quickly share good news. People you haven’t seen in years can instantly know if you are engaged, married or expecting a baby. However, just as instantly, those very same people can view an unflattering picture of you that can take years to eradicate from their memory. Not only is distribution immediate and indiscriminate, but social media has the unnatural ability to cause people to lose their discretion. Things that we would never share in real life, are posted on Facebook for all to see. Things that we would never say to a person, we tweet. The perception of anonymity masks the truth of notoriety, and wisdom is cast into the sea.

As Christians, we should be doubly cautious about this, because we should want all our words, whether spoken or written, to reflect Christ. Not only does this mean we should use discretion with what we say about others, but it also means that we should be careful about what we write about ourselves. For example, it’s not uncommon for people to give full vent to their complaints on Twitter or Facebook. However, Scripture tells us that we should do “all things without grumbling” (See Phil. 2:14-16).  Later, Paul shares that we should focus on “whatever is pure, whatever is lovely” (See Phil. 4:8) and yet, in the social media world we often instead focus on “whatever is crass, whatever is disturbing.” We are told throughout Scripture to be people of joy (for example, see Romans 12:12) and yet, sometimes, if one were to read our Facebook feed, there would be seemingly little cause for elation. Look, I know life is tough, but as Christians, this should not come as a surprise. What should catch people off guard, however, is that in the midst of these tough times, our confidence is found in Christ.

I was once taught in the corporate world that I should never put anything in an e-mail that I wouldn’t want projected behind me if I ever had to be on the witness stand. As Christians, let us strive to never tweet or write a post that we wouldn’t want have read back to us when we stand in the throne room of Christ.

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Hurrying Love

I’ve always loved the song “You Can’t Hurry Love.” Who among us hasn’t song along with Miss Ross as she belts out “but mama said…”? Many times in my single days this song would remind me that I had to “trust, give it time, no matter how long it takes.”

The song, is catchy, and is, I believe, in some respects true. I’m a firm proponent that waiting for who God has in store for you is a much better idea than rushing around to find someone. I know for certain that it worked in my case. A husband like mine is a rare jewel indeed, and looking back, every bit of waiting was definitely worth it.

However, while the romantic implications of this song may be true, there’s another aspect of it that doesn’t resonate. Sure, maybe we shouldn’t be rushing to make someone into our soul mate, but I do think that, in a sense, we can hurry love. Now, before I lose you, this isn’t another blog about how “you have to put yourself out there” – a horrible phrase if you ask me. Instead, I think we can hurry love of a different kind, the kind of love that calls people to Christ and displays His glory.

“How?” you may ask, and rightly so. The answer is that we must be that dispenser of love. Now, this doesn’t mean that we will always get love in return. Christ expressly says that if we love Him, we will be persecuted. However, it does mean that as we reflect Him, and His love, we hasten people’s reception of Him. We hurry love by acting like the One who is love personified, and in doing so, more people love Him.

Miss Ross’s mama may have been right, but the Word of God is righter still. It says we should love others as Christ loved us. Let’s hasten towards that goal, and in doing so, hurry others toward Him.

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