The Pride of Fear

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I heard once that the fear of falling was the only “natural” fear that babies have. All other fears are either taught or learned. I don’t know if this is true, or even how researchers could confirm that, but it seems to make sense. Without it, there would be no inclination that kept children from face-planting on a regular basis (except perhaps the pain that they felt when they did so.) The idea that God in His loving wisdom instilled an aversion to this dangerous habit is in keeping with what we know about God and His care for His children.

Not all fears have the positive benefit that this fear of falling does. In fact, most don’t. Instead our fears are generally rooted in the profound awareness that we are unable to control our environment. Children fear being made fun of because they won’t know how to make it stop and return to social grace. Adults fear the future because what happens in it is outside of their control. These types of fears are to our detriment, not benefit. Instead of preventing us from harm, that are instead likely to prevent us from living the life that God desires for His children – a life of obedience and trust that is dependent on Him. 

As the preceding paragraph illustrates, but as we seldom consider, the root of these fears is our own pride. In Isaiah this point is made abundantly clear when God says to His people:

“I, I am he who comforts you;

who are you that you are afraid of man who dies,

of the son of man who is made like grass,” (Is. 51:12)

In other words, if we rightly considered who God is, the absurdity of our fear would be readily apparent. It is because we have taken our eyes off of Him and instead focused them on ourselves that we fear what other people can do to us. Our perspective should be one in constant awe and wonder at what the God of the Universe can do. The fact that He has condescended to comfort us and give us rest should quench any of our earthly fears. When it does not, when fear of man abounds even as we know the greatness of our God and King, it is not because He is insufficient to meet them. It is because we have taken on the task of dealing with the uncertainty and trials of life ourselves, instead of looking to Him.

It can be disconcerting to think of our fear in this way as we convince ourselves that we need to worry and fret over certain things, much like a baby should fear falling over. However, Scripture makes it clear that this type of inward concern with ourselves never produced any godly benefit (See Lk. 12:25, Mt. 6:25-34). Instead, our eyes should remain focused on the One who gave us this life, and Who in His infinite wisdom can take it away. If He has the beginning and the end under His sovereign control, we should certainly be able to trust Him with the in-between, and to look to Him, instead of ourselves, when the temptation to fear our circumstances appears.

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The Trouble of the Day

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It’s easy to get overwhelmed by all that has to happen in a given week, let alone all that we want to bring to fruition in a given month or year. We make plans in hopes of fulfilling our dreams and goals, only to quickly realize that we didn’t take into account all of the unforeseen circumstances that can distract us from our path. Sometimes as one thing goes awry, we quickly imagine all the other hurdles that we might have to face and are conquered by the seemingly endless litany of potential problems. Today seems insufficient; and tomorrow and the next day aren’t looking so good either.

Yet, as we battle with the fatigue caused by our worry, we would do well to remember that oftentimes the load we carry is greater than the one that is ours to bear. In Matthew 6:34, Christ reminds us that there is no use worrying about tomorrow, for that day contains its own challenges and difficulties. Today, in the moments we face now, God has provided His children with grace that is sufficient for the trials we are to face (See 2 Cor. 12:9). When the next day comes, He will provide the new mercies that are needed to bring Him glory and honor in whatever that days holds (See Lam. 3:22-23). Our job isn’t to bear all the burdens of what may be; our job is to trust in the One who was, is, and will be – and who through it all remains the same.

As John Newton reminds us about looking forward and anticipating the bundle of trials that may arise:

“…God does not require us to carry the whole at once; he mercifully unties the bundle, and gives us first one stick, which we are to carry today, and then another, which we are to carry tomorrow, and so on. This we might easily manage, if we would only take the burden appointed for us each day; but we choose to increase our troubles by carrying yesterday’s stick over again today, and adding tomorrow’s burden to our load, before we are required to bear it.

The challenge then is not that today is insufficient for its burden, but that we hold on to the past, and grab on to the future, overloading the day with cares that it was never intended to hold. Our worries are driven more by our own fears than the problems we need to face.

In all likelihood, there will be trouble today. It may be big or it may be small, but whatever it is, God has equipped His children with the grace they need to bring Him glory through it. We may be ill content with the burdens of the day desiring to take on our past and future struggles as well. However we need to entrust those to the day for which God has appointed them, and the mercies He will provide when those are the challenges we are to face.

 

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