Room for Complaint

“Glory” is one of those words that we use a lot in church, and that we see portrayed in everyday life. The football player glories in his speed as he celebrates the winning touchdown. The lawyer finds glory in winning a case. This word, associated with honor, celebration, and recognizing that which is good, may not regularly be used to describe the elation that people feel when they’re proud of their own accomplishments, yet it is an accurate descriptor. And it’s not just their own victories that people glory in; they may glory in their circumstances, the people around them, or their possession as well.

The problem with all of these things is that at some time, they are bound to disappoint. The athlete will have a bad game. The lawyer will lose a case. The people that we found so worthy of honor, will let us down. When we what we primarily honor, admire, and celebrate is something other than God, we will quickly learn that those things are unworthy objects of glory. In other words, we will learn that those things make poor gods.

Additionally, when our admiration is misplaced, we will be tempted to complain. After all, if we are glorifying in something other than God, and we know that eventually it is bound to disappoint, our heart will become bitter when it fact the disappointment occurs. The recognition that we’ve honored something or someone that was less-than-perfect usually isn’t pronounced. Instead, what we proclaim is our chagrin that the person or thing didn’t live up to our standards, and we make the case why it should have. In other words, we issue our complaint. Sometimes loudly for everyone to hear, and sometimes just in the confines of our heart. However, if we were glorifying in God alone, we would have no cause for a complaining spirit. After all, He never disappoints. He is always faithful, always worthy and always fulfills His promises. If we honored, admired and celebrate Him first and foremost, everything lesser that did cause disappointment, wouldn’t compare to the glory that is to be found in Him.

It’s a simple equation really. When our confidence is misplaced, our hearts complain. When our confidence is in Him alone, we have no cause for complaint. So the next time we’re tempted to unleash our reasons why life is unfair, or to dictate our charge against someone who has disappointed, we need to ask ourselves, “Where is our confidence and hope?” “In what are we finding glory?”

 

Now it’s your turn….when you do find glory in God first and foremost, how does this change the way you respond?

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Advantage, Them

Humans are, if nothing else, master justifiers. We are great at coming up with excuses and explanations for why we do the things we do. We must have learned this from our forefathers – after all Adam started the trend in the Garden of Eden and Eve quickly followed suit. Even when we know something is generally wrong, we try to explain why it is specifically right for us.

Christians aren’t exempt from this proclivity. We tend to add an extra layer of perceived holiness to our excuses when we twist Scripture to support our bad choices. Perhaps no Scripture is more abused in this arena than Paul’s proclamation in I Cor. 9:22b. “I’ve become all things to all people” has been repeatedly misused as a lame excuse to justify sinful choices.
The reason this misapplication happens so easily, is the same reason that most misinterpretation of Scripture occurs. We fail to read the entire passage. If we did so, we would read:
“I have become all things to all people, that by all means I might save some. I do it all for the sake of the gospel, that I may share with them in its blessings.” (I Cor. 9:22b-23, emphasis added.)
Later, Paul continues on the same topic when he writes,
just as I try to please everyone in everything I do, not seeking my own advantage, but that of many, that they may be saved.(I Cor. 10:33, emphasis mine)
Did you notice that last bit? We tend to use this verse to substantiate why we can do the things that we want to do, but that wasn’t Paul’s motivation. He did it so that it might benefit other people. In other words, the advantage wasn’t going to Paul but to the people he was ministering to. It wasn’t about getting what he wanted, but giving them what they needed. And what they needed was Christ.
It’s the same motivation that should drive our decisions. We should ask ourselves whether what we want to do brings someone closer to Christ? Is this beneficial to their walk with God and not just a fulfillment of our desires? Does the advantage go to them or is it about us?
Our focus shouldn’t be on attempts to justify why we should be getting the things we want, and doing what we want to do. Instead we should adjust our lives in such ways that as a result, “many will be saved.”
What do you think? Why are we tempted to misappropriate these verses to justify doing what we want to do?
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